Saturday, June 5, 2010

At peace with ourselves and moving on

After losing so many people this past year I have decided to start a blog in honor of all the people I loved who have crossed over to the other side. Since I am studying mediumship, I have decided to start this blog and leave it open to others who may have questions or just want to speak to those whom they have lost. I will name a few. My brother-in-law Patrick who died of cancer in 1983; with whom I had a close relationship with and will never forget. My distant cousin, Sonia just passed away in May this year. My friend Carl who I used to work with who died just last year. Today I buried another close friend, Ola at the young age of 40. He was killed this past Sunday from an automobile accident. I am still grieving today and feel so lost. Death is a part of life and we have no choice but to accept it but we need to cry, we need to grieve, we need to also celebrate their life while we knew them. No one says it will be easy but there is another world where they find peace and happiness. Where there is no pain, no suffering, no one to judge them. It is normal to grieve and good to talk about it. Join me in discussion about your loved ones. Share your stories. I'm sure there are many good stories to tell. Write and express how you feel. They will read it. They will feel your pain and your love.

4 comments:

  1. This week I plan on making a trip out to Earth Tech, where I first met Ola and developed a friendship with him. I am hoping to find comfort with the other co-workers and feel your presence there. Miss you.

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  2. Thought of you Ola, before I fell alseep. Was hoping you'd come through so I could talk with you. I understand. Your first priority is to your wife and family. You are always in my thoughts Ola. I hope your okay up there?

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  3. I am struggling yet another day with this pain in my heart. Knowing that I can't ever call you or talk to you again or hear your voice. Today I was thinking and remembering about the day I sent you a teddy bear for Valentine's Day. I hope you got it. It was merely a token of my friendship. I hope one day to get a sign from you which will bring me peace, knowing your alright on the other side. This was a sudden impact and I'm sure you didn't know it was coming. I'm thinking you may be still in limbo and not crossed over yet. I hope not. Please let me know you're alright Ola.

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  4. I went to visit where we once worked together and your energy was there. I could feel it. It was strong! It moved me. I miss you so much Ola. Please help me through this.

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